I swear by Diana Weynand's texts, also, spend a little more $ and consider a year's subscription to Lynda.com. Also, I think that you will find that in time, you might become acquainted with Larry Jordan's site (which has excellent links to other "tutorial" sites.) In my opinion... in the beginning - Forums sites might not be of great benefit - I mean... you have to develop the vocabulary to ask the specific question, no? But don't misunderstand... we who are able will give you as much time as possible.
Lastly, "necessity is the mother of invention" - so go out there and make movies! It won't take long.
Be Good -